It doesn’t matter if you’re on your own, married, living together, LGBTQI+, non-monogamous or anything in between – we’re here to help you strengthen your relationships.

Everyone has ups and downs in their relationship. Most couples work through issues on their own. When matters come to a head and couples can’t move forward, we’re here to help

What it is

Whether you’re having problems in your relationship or you’d just like to understand your partner better, talking things through with one of our counsellors can make a real difference.

Relationship Counselling is for everyone. Whether you’re married, single, living together or apart, straight or gay we can help you strengthen your relationships.

An elderly couple laughing at a dining table with his arm around her shoulders

How it helps

Our counsellors provide a caring and supportive space to help find a way through any difficulties you may be facing in your relationship. Watch this video clip below which shows how relationship counselling can help.

What to expect

The first step is to make an appointment with us. We will arrange an initial appointment at a time to suit you either face to face or online. At the first session of up to 60 minutes, the counsellor will ask some questions about you and your partner and what you hope to get out of the counselling. We can then decide if we can help you. We will want to see you individually for a session each to find out how you feel about your relationship in a confidential non-judgmental space. If you find it difficult to talk about your feelings or emotions, the counsellor may use visual cues or mapping to help you to clarify your thoughts.

Arrange A Free Initial Enquiry Call Today

If you are looking for support but you’re not sure where to start, fill out the form below and arrange an initial call with a member of our team. They can then guide you to ensure you receive all the support that you require.

If you would rather contact us directly, please use the details below:

  • Email us

  • 01483 602998

Here’s what some of our clients had to say about counselling at Relate West Surrey:

“I thought she was fantastically good at getting someone to change their behaviour”
– Rob

“She was very good at giving us the tools to take away and work with”
– Jane

“It was too late for us, but we’ve stayed friends and I don’t think that would have happened without Relate”

– Andy

Please note names have been changed for reasons of confidentiality

Our core services

Relationship counselling

Help for couples and individuals who are worried about their relationship.

Individual counselling

Help for people who have concerns about their wellbeing.

Young people counselling

Help for children and young people whose worries are affecting their wellbeing.

Family counselling

Help for families when problems are affecting family relationships.

Sex therapy

Help for couple and individuals to achieve happy and satisfying sex lives.

Mediation for separation

Help for separating and divorced couples to reach a pre-court agreement on the practical matters.